Deciding to homeschool is a big decision for any family. It was one of the toughest decisions I’ve ever had to make as a parent. Over three years into our homeschooling journey, I have such a peace knowing that it was the right decision for us. But, actually making that decision is tough! Are you considering homeschool? Here’s a list of things to consider when making your list of pros and cons.
Do you enjoy learning?
Yes, you will be teaching your children, but do you enjoy learning? Because you will without a doubt be learning! As you work through your child’s curriculum (no matter what style you choose), you will be learning right along with them. If you enjoy learning and naturally have a heart for sharing what you learn with others, you will make a great teacher.
Do you have a support system?
It is so important to find other homeschooling families that you can connect with. I cherish my friendships with other HS moms, and my kids looks forward to every get together! We all need support. Reach out to some moms (or dads) that you know already homeschool. Look for families that seem like they may be a good fit for your preferred style of homeschooling. Ask them to sit down with you sometime soon. Pick their brain for curriculum ideas, planning tips, and group gatherings. Get an idea of what the homeschooling community looks like near you.
Does your schedule allow it?
Talk about wearing many hats! I have two children. I put in about 30-40 hours a week for school. That includes planning, teaching, field trips, and all things school. We’re not sitting at the table with books 5 hours a day, but when I add up the time I put in, it’s easily a full-time job. It would be very difficult for me to do if I worked outside the home, or had large demands on my time outside of schooling. Can you make the time adjustments needed to make your homeschooling journey successful?
Does your spouse support the idea?
Having support from my husband is a big factor in the comfort I had to finally make the decision to begin homeschooling, and his continued support makes a big difference in our journey.
Can you afford it?
Although you can be very frugal and really pinch every penny when it comes to buying what you need, there is still a cost. It’s nothing compared to a private school tuition, but it does require more money than sending them to public school, obviously. There are many resources to keep costs low! Book swaps, trades, and even some FREE options. But, you will need to consider the costs. Begin preparing a mock budget for your school year. Add up the costs of your potential curriculum choices, and extra curricular activity expenses to get an idea of what you can expect to spend.
Are you organized?
Planning and organization are probably my worst quality as a teacher! But, I manage. Homeschooling will require lesson planning and organization. If I don’t prepare ahead of time our school day is a nightmare. You’ll need some time each week to plan, gather materials needed, and organize work samples in your child’s portfolio. It’s not an exact science, and there’s no right or wrong way to do it. But, be prepared to plan!
Do you have a suitable space for learning?
Get creative! We struggle with small spaces here, but we make it work. Your child needs a good place to learn and work. You know your child best. But every child needs a designated space. Your child’s work space needs to be free of clutter, and clearly designated during school hours. We have to transform our dining area into the school area daily. My oldest also has a nice work space and desk in his room. It doesn’t have to be perfect to work. But, it does need to work!
Do you feel qualified?
I’m not asking you if you have a teaching degree or if you have any kind of background in education at all. I’m simply asking you if you think you can teach your children. I’ll be honest. This was my biggest fear! I was so worried I wasn’t qualified. But, the truth is. I am! And more than likely, so are you! If you love your kids, enjoy learning, and have a heart to teach them, you can do it. Just really think about how you actually ”feel” about teaching them.
Do you want to use a faith based curriculum?
Your children will not get this at public school. How important is that to you and your spouse? Yes, values are taught at home no matter where your child goes to school, but how important is it to you that they be incorporated into their day-to-day learning? I love being able to incorporate our beliefs into our school day. It blesses our family!
Do your kids like the idea?
Now, let me just say this is not a decision for your children. But, how do they feel about it? I think it’s important to weigh in this topic with them at the right time (and age) in the decision making process. Kids give great insight. Do they like idea of being home? Both of mine love the idea, so that helps. But, I’m not sure how I would feel if they hated the idea.
Somewhere along the way I picked up homeschooling two boys and blogging. When I'm not scrubbing toilets or answering endless questions, I'm usually here, over sharing it all! My writing is always honest, sometimes sarcastic, and never perfect. I hope to keep my kids from seeking adult therapy. I know. Pipe dreams...You can find me as @TheMommyMess on Twitter and on Facebook.
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Oh, this is an excellent list! My oldest is only 3, but I've been praying about homeschooling and think that is the direction we are going to go. . . .
Thank you for laying it out so well for me!
All for Him,
Nikki
Very good list with valid questions to ponder before making a decision.
VERY good advice. We are a long time homeschool family, and it was a really difficult decision. In Debra Bell's Ultimate Guide to Homeschooling, one of her points was that you should enjoy being with your children a lot. Not just that you love your children, but that you love to be WITH them a lot. I thought that was interesting at the time, but such a good bit of advice!
Very good list! I always think that once we move back to the US this is the route we will need to go.
All awesome. I can't even pick a favorite! My brother's family home schools 7 kids. It's pretty awesome to talk to them about it.
This is the best list for making the homeschooling decision.
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This is a great article & wonderful encouragement for those who haven’t jumped into the challenging but AMAZING homeschool world. Good job!
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Homeschooling it’s the best decision we could have made!! Education in our schools today are not as it used to when we were growing up. Our teachers cared more about our learning than just a paycheck. I’m not saying that there aren’t teachers out there that care about their student but unfortunately too many just don’t care. We have four kids we homeschool and to be with them everyday is just a blessing. Thanks for this list, certainly great tips!!
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Hi Ana! Homeschool has been an amazing journey for our family too. Also, the best choice I’ve made as a parent so far! Thanks for coming by!
You’re welcome! You have tons of great info as well. Thanks for sharing those tips =)